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I applaud you for making the effort in searching for the truth. It takes a great amount of courage and energy to say 'enough is enough' and go against your usual behaviour. Therefore I won't keep you any longer! My articles are 100% ad free and are a collection of my inner most realisations about love, relationships, life and happiness, put together for you to make sense of your own journey.
THE CRITICAL OTHER
Around a partner or a parent for whom nothing is ever good enough, we feel constantly down and angry, sluggish and tired. Whenever they...
Michaela Patel
May 7, 20164 min read
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RELATIONSHIPS 2 - THE QUESTIONS
When we are hurting, the quickest way to soothe our pain and fill the void we feel in our heart, is to find another partner. This works...
Michaela Patel
Apr 8, 20164 min read
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RELATIONSHIPS 1 - THE LOSS
So the person you have loved so dearly is now gone. He, or she, has left the relationship you put so much faith and hope into. All there...
Michaela Patel
Apr 7, 20163 min read
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LOVE-SCAM RELATIONSHIP 1
Do you feel that you are the giver, the nurturer, and your partner the taker? Is the topic of your conversations often about them? Do you...
Michaela Patel
Apr 3, 20164 min read
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MISSION IMPOSSIBLE?
My blogs are an attempt to wake you up from the nightmare you don't know you are dreaming, to the emotional pain you feel but fail to...
Michaela Patel
Mar 30, 20163 min read
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FEAR NOT
"You are not your fear." What does it really mean? I asked myself. My fear comes from me, it is part of me....it must BE who I AM, no? If...
Michaela Patel
Mar 4, 20164 min read
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WHERE ARE YOUR DEMONS HIDING?
Mindfulness/Awareness is knowing how our CONSCIOUS mind works. And not only that. It also means that we are aware of how our SUBCONSCIOUS...
Michaela Patel
Feb 25, 20164 min read
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THE CONCEPT OF LOVE
Have you ever felt pain in connection with love ? Would you say that 'LOVE HURTS' ? If your answer is YES, I dare to say to you that you...
Michaela Patel
Feb 17, 20165 min read
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DRAMA 2
We really struggle to have a peaceful life, don't we? Although unconsciously, it is intentional. It is our escape. ESCAPE from the drama...
Michaela Patel
Feb 2, 20162 min read
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DRAMA 1
Lets face it, we are addicted to drama! It is just about everywhere on daily basis. Our addiction is a form of dissociation. Form of...
Michaela Patel
Feb 1, 20162 min read
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THE MOTHER AND HER INNER CHILD
MY INNER CHILD I see my inner child (my immature Self) from a perspective of my adult ( the mature Self) - from the perspective of who I...
Michaela Patel
Jan 29, 20163 min read
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HELPING A NARCISSIST
It is UNHEALTHY to want to bond with an unhealthy person - mentally and emotionally. Spiritually, I guess, it is needed as a lesson to...
Michaela Patel
Jan 25, 20163 min read
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PERFECTION 1
Sometimes, it's tricky to see our own perfection through our wounds. The more wounded we are the more we believe we are imperfect ...not...
Michaela Patel
Jan 9, 20163 min read
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