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I applaud you for making the effort in searching for the truth. It takes a great amount of courage and energy to say 'enough is enough' and go against your usual behaviour. Therefore I won't keep you any longer! My articles are 100% ad free and are a collection of my inner most realisations about love, relationships, life and happiness, put together for you to make sense of your own journey.
Michaela Patel
Jan 13, 20204 min read
YOUR INNER COMPASS: REALISE YOUR TRUE VALUE
What is validation and how much of it is needed for us to feel OK? Why do we seek acceptance from those we care about? And why do we...
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Michaela Patel
Jun 1, 20193 min read
THE POWER OF SEXY - HOW DO WE UNCONSCIOUSLY DEVALUE OURSELVES?
Why is being sexy so important to us? With the summer in full swing, the layers are coming off whilst the pressure to look hot is on. We...
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Michaela Patel
Mar 11, 20184 min read
SELF-WORTH AND RELATIONSHIPS
Do you have a healthy self-esteem? How does low self-worth show up in your relationships? Have you experienced lack of intimacy, no sense...
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Michaela Patel
Aug 28, 20174 min read
WIN OR LOSE OF RELATING
Relating is a TWO way exchange. Two way communication, mutual affection, and resulting CONNECTION. We pride ourselves on having great...
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Michaela Patel
Aug 20, 20176 min read
THE 'PERFECT' PARENTING SHOW
How do you know you are doing a good job of parenting? We are our children's VISUAL, LIVE EXAMPLE, based on which they form their beliefs...
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Michaela Patel
Mar 5, 20172 min read
BOUNDARIES 1 - YOUR KNOWLEDGE
Our carers were the creators (and destroyers, surprise-surprise!) of our boundaries, of what we allow and what we absolutely don't. For...
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Michaela Patel
Feb 19, 20173 min read
LOVE ME PLEASE!
'I JUST WANT TO BE LOVED !' our Inner Child screams when feeling lonely, misunderstood, or rejected. This has happened to all of us at...
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Michaela Patel
Feb 12, 20173 min read
'DO YOU LOVE ME?'
‘Do you really love me?’ we ask others like our life depends on it. And it often does… We deem this question the alpha and omega of our...
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Michaela Patel
Dec 11, 20163 min read
MANIPULATION AND RELATIONSHIPS 2
When you have no desire, nor need, to justify your dos and don'ts to anyone but YOU, you have established a solid relationship with...
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Michaela Patel
Oct 12, 20164 min read
EXPERIENCING CHILDHOOD NEGLECT AND ITS REPERCUSSIONS ON ADULT RELATIONSHIPS
Could your actions be subconsciously driven by your unfulfilled childhood needs? What are your needs and are they healthy? Our basic...
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Michaela Patel
May 19, 20164 min read
OUR IDEAL PARTNER
Have you ever found yourself thinking 'I can't recognise him or her no more'? It is an awakening. Usually a rude one. It typically...
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Michaela Patel
May 16, 20163 min read
WHY DO WE CHEAT?
Are we looking for thrills? Novelty? For the feeling of being desired we no longer feel in our current relationship? Yes we are. But only...
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Michaela Patel
May 14, 20166 min read
KARMA 3
On one sunny morning, their daughter was born... After an initial excitement and when the novelty has worn off, their relationship...
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Michaela Patel
May 13, 20164 min read
KARMA 2
He found a woman he wanted to marry. On the outside, his relationship with her looked like any other relationship. They were IN LOVE......
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Michaela Patel
Feb 11, 20163 min read
LOOKING GOOD - THE ILLUSION OF WORTH
We love having more. Bigger! Better! Newer stuff. It makes us feel good about ourselves. Doing, having or looking ‘better than' others...
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Michaela Patel
Feb 5, 20163 min read
MY INTENTIONS
So I set up my new website…. I am excited to share my knowledge with a pure intention: to help you see YOUR struggle in mine. For you to...
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Michaela Patel
Feb 1, 20162 min read
DRAMA 1
Lets face it, we are addicted to drama! It is just about everywhere on daily basis. Our addiction is a form of dissociation. Form of...
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Michaela Patel
Jan 25, 20163 min read
HELPING A NARCISSIST
It is UNHEALTHY to want to bond with an unhealthy person - mentally and emotionally. Spiritually, I guess, it is needed as a lesson to...
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