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I applaud you for making the effort in searching for the truth. It takes a great amount of courage and energy to say 'enough is enough' and go against your usual behaviour. Therefore I won't keep you any longer! My articles are 100% ad free and are a collection of my inner most realisations about love, relationships, life and happiness, put together for you to make sense of your own journey.
Michaela Patel
Jul 28, 20183 min read
LOVE ON TAP
What happens when we enter a relationship with a hurting heart? Do you want to hear the truth? Because I am here to tell you it. I will...
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Michaela Patel
May 23, 20183 min read
THE JAR OF HEARTS 2 - HOW TO FILL UP YOURS?
First, you must re-define selfishness. So far you’ve been told (and believed!) that selfishness is putting you first. Yet, putting you...
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Michaela Patel
Apr 28, 20184 min read
UNDERSTANDING LOVE
LOVE. The four letter word everyone likes to understand and possess. ‘What is love and how can I find it?’ I get asked daily. Like a...
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Michaela Patel
Feb 11, 20183 min read
UNPLUGGED FROM LOVE
Everyone wants love. And you want it too! It is your most basic need. An inherent part of you, something that you ARE. With the start of...
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Michaela Patel
Nov 26, 20172 min read
DO YOU DESERVE RESPECT?
Who doesn't like to be respected? But what IS respect and can we earn respect by reaching certain age or status? In the FALSE world of...
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Michaela Patel
Jul 22, 20173 min read
RELATIONSHIP GIVE OR TAKE
Relatioships aren't easy, are they? Relating to another implies constant negotiations. Push and pull. Give and take. Based on simple...
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Michaela Patel
Jun 28, 20174 min read
POSITIVE PARENTAL CONDITIONING?
How great, happy, loving and kind would our children be if we managed to flood their belief system with POSITIVE messages about...
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Michaela Patel
Jun 20, 20173 min read
FINDING HAPPINESS 3
The next question you get to repeat to yourself many times from this point onwards is HOW or WHAT DO I NEED TO CHANGE so that it doesn't...
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Michaela Patel
Jun 4, 20174 min read
FINDING HAPPINESS 1
A very good friend of mine had asked me: 'So how did you find true happiness?' I decided to dive deep under the surface of my...
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Michaela Patel
May 17, 20173 min read
SELF-LOVE BREAK DOWN 2
You admitted the TRUTH to yourself about you and others in your life... ...but your bravery is rewarded with some rather unpleasant...
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Michaela Patel
May 10, 20174 min read
WHY CRYING IS GOOD AND WHAT IS IMPATHY?
'I haven't cried Mummy because I am strong!' said my 5 year old son the other day. He was waiting for me to say 'WELL DONE, Sweetheart.'...
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Michaela Patel
Apr 26, 20172 min read
LOVE COMES EASY 2
Why are we so keen on pretending? Why do we find it hard to show the real us to others? Because we believe that there is something the...
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Michaela Patel
Apr 20, 20173 min read
LOVE COMES EASY 1
We are the happiest when we are being LOVING. It is a simple truth anyone can feel for themselves. Feeling love for others, and...
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Michaela Patel
Mar 19, 20173 min read
YOUR DARK ANGEL
Only when we are brave enough to acknowledge and learn more about our DARK SIDE, we get closer to, and experience, our true nature. By...
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Michaela Patel
Feb 12, 20173 min read
'DO YOU LOVE ME?'
‘Do you really love me?’ we ask others like our life depends on it. And it often does… We deem this question the alpha and omega of our...
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Michaela Patel
Dec 28, 20162 min read
ATTRACTION vs. TRUE LOVE 2
As adults, the fastest way to feel ACCEPTED is through sleeping with another. Physical touch, skin to skin contact, reminds us of the...
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Michaela Patel
Dec 25, 20162 min read
ATTRACTION vs. TRUE LOVE 1
Attraction, seemingly powered by love, is frequently fuelled by our INSECURITIES... To truly love others you do not need to be attracted...
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Michaela Patel
Sep 17, 20163 min read
FEAR OR LOVE?
ALL our intentions are driven by these two opposing forces - by darkness, or by light. Saying 'yes' or 'no' to things is driven by us...
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Michaela Patel
Aug 11, 20163 min read
RELATIONSHIP BUBBLE
All we strive for, since a very young age, is to be in a relationship. We are driven by what relationship REPRESENTS, rarely questioning...
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Michaela Patel
Jul 16, 20164 min read
LOVE AND ATTENTION
Do you think that being attentive equals being LOVING? Most of us assume so. Some of us build our relationships on this assumption with...
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