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I applaud you for making the effort in searching for the truth. It takes a great amount of courage and energy to say 'enough is enough' and go against your usual behaviour. Therefore I won't keep you any longer! My articles are 100% ad free and are a collection of my inner most realisations about love, relationships, life and happiness, put together for you to make sense of your own journey.
RELATIONSHIP GIVE OR TAKE
Relatioships aren't easy, are they? Relating to another implies constant negotiations. Push and pull. Give and take. Based on simple...
Michaela Patel
Jul 22, 20173 min read
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POSITIVE PARENTAL CONDITIONING?
How great, happy, loving and kind would our children be if we managed to flood their belief system with POSITIVE messages about...
Michaela Patel
Jun 28, 20174 min read
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FINDING HAPPINESS 3
The next question you get to repeat to yourself many times from this point onwards is HOW or WHAT DO I NEED TO CHANGE so that it doesn't...
Michaela Patel
Jun 20, 20173 min read
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FINDING HAPPINESS 1
A very good friend of mine had asked me: 'So how did you find true happiness?' I decided to dive deep under the surface of my...
Michaela Patel
Jun 4, 20174 min read
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SELF-LOVE BREAK DOWN 2
You admitted the TRUTH to yourself about you and others in your life... ...but your bravery is rewarded with some rather unpleasant...
Michaela Patel
May 17, 20173 min read
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LOVE COMES EASY 2
Why are we so keen on pretending? Why do we find it hard to show the real us to others? Because we believe that there is something the...
Michaela Patel
Apr 26, 20172 min read
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LOVE COMES EASY 1
We are the happiest when we are being LOVING. It is a simple truth anyone can feel for themselves. Feeling love for others, and...
Michaela Patel
Apr 20, 20173 min read
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UNDERSTANDING SELF-REJECTION 1
How are we meant to feel loved when we reject ourselves few times a day? It starts as soon as we wake up and walk into the bathroom:...
Michaela Patel
Mar 26, 20173 min read
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BOUNDARIES 3 - YOUR ANGER
Those whose boundaries have been consistently crashed on one end build a REACTIONARY boundary to overcompensate for the lack of space in...
Michaela Patel
Mar 5, 20173 min read
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BOUNDARIES 1 - YOUR KNOWLEDGE
Our carers were the creators (and destroyers, surprise-surprise!) of our boundaries, of what we allow and what we absolutely don't. For...
Michaela Patel
Mar 5, 20172 min read
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BOUNDARIES 2 - YOUR COMMUNICATION
You now know that in order to use the energy of your anger CORRECTLY you will need to stop taking it out on others, or on yourself by...
Michaela Patel
Mar 5, 20173 min read
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LOVE ME PLEASE!
'I JUST WANT TO BE LOVED !' our Inner Child screams when feeling lonely, misunderstood, or rejected. This has happened to all of us at...
Michaela Patel
Feb 19, 20173 min read
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'DO YOU LOVE ME?'
‘Do you really love me?’ we ask others like our life depends on it. And it often does… We deem this question the alpha and omega of our...
Michaela Patel
Feb 12, 20173 min read
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REALITY CHECK
Making our happiness independent of HAVING (money, relationships, knowledge) brings complete freedom into our life. We are no longer...
Michaela Patel
Jan 22, 20173 min read
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ATTRACTION vs. TRUE LOVE 2
As adults, the fastest way to feel ACCEPTED is through sleeping with another. Physical touch, skin to skin contact, reminds us of the...
Michaela Patel
Dec 28, 20162 min read
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ATTRACTION vs. TRUE LOVE 1
Attraction, seemingly powered by love, is frequently fuelled by our INSECURITIES... To truly love others you do not need to be attracted...
Michaela Patel
Dec 25, 20162 min read
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MANIPULATION AND RELATIONSHIPS 2
When you have no desire, nor need, to justify your dos and don'ts to anyone but YOU, you have established a solid relationship with...
Michaela Patel
Dec 11, 20163 min read
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MANIPULATION AND RELATIONSHIPS 1
Manipulation is the black magic of relationships. How far are we willing to go in using it determines who tricks who... Some...
Michaela Patel
Dec 11, 20163 min read
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DEPTH OF CONNECTION - THE COMMUNICATION
What kind of space opens up for you when you come to communicate your wants and needs to your partner? Expressing ourselves isn't always...
Michaela Patel
Nov 23, 20163 min read
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DEPTH OF CONNECTION - THE RESPONSIBILITY
Relationships work as long as both partners want the same. When we are on the same page we feel we can take on the whole world together,...
Michaela Patel
Nov 15, 20163 min read
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