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I applaud you for making the effort in searching for the truth. It takes a great amount of courage and energy to say 'enough is enough' and go against your usual behaviour. Therefore I won't keep you any longer! My articles are 100% ad free and are a collection of my inner most realisations about love, relationships, life and happiness, put together for you to make sense of your own journey.


Michaela Patel
Jun 1, 20193 min read
THE POWER OF SEXY - HOW DO WE UNCONSCIOUSLY DEVALUE OURSELVES?
Why is being sexy so important to us? With the summer in full swing, the layers are coming off whilst the pressure to look hot is on. We...
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Michaela Patel
Feb 1, 20196 min read
FEELING NOT GOOD ENOUGH - HOW DO YOU GET IN YOUR WAY?
We so rely on them! The thoughts that make us feel good. All the motivational and positive messages fuel our joy and give us hope. But...
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Michaela Patel
Jan 1, 20193 min read
FLIRTING - THE GAME WITH A PLAN
Lets kick off this New Year with an almost ancient, nevertheless, ever-interesting topic which affects us all. Examining our hidden...
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Michaela Patel
Nov 30, 20183 min read
WHAT YOU REALLY WANT - HOW IS COPYING OTHERS MAKING US SUFFER
Why is it important to stop and re-evaluate our priorities? Why do we end up juggling so much? Can we ever achieve an inner freedom?
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Michaela Patel
Mar 2, 20185 min read
UNDERSTANDING DEPRESSION
Many of us have been there. A dark, dark place. A long tunnel. So long that you cannot see the light at the end of it. You have no clue...
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Michaela Patel
Feb 7, 20183 min read
WHY EMPATHS CARRY DRAMA? 1
Us empaths, we are highly tuned to the EMOTIONAL IMBALANCE of our environment. And because we are so emotionally sensitive, we are drawn...
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Michaela Patel
Jan 24, 20183 min read
HEALING YOUR HEART POST-DIVORCE 2
So to truly heal and not to temporarily cover up your pain you must notice that which is causing it. 3/ Get to know your thoughts and...
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Michaela Patel
Jan 10, 20183 min read
THE SELFISHNESS OF SAYING 'NO'
Why do we find it hard to say 'NO' to others? In short, the answer is: Because saying 'YES' is our forte. Having practiced the same since...
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Michaela Patel
Nov 26, 20172 min read
DO YOU DESERVE RESPECT?
Who doesn't like to be respected? But what IS respect and can we earn respect by reaching certain age or status? In the FALSE world of...
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Michaela Patel
Nov 12, 20174 min read
PRICELESS RELATIONSHIP LESSONS
What have my past relationships taught me? That every person I engaged with was a reflection of where I was in life AT THAT POINT in...
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Michaela Patel
Oct 8, 20172 min read
YOUR ULTIMATE BETRAYAL
How often do you betray yourself? 'Oh what are you talking about!? I would never do that!' your Ego immediately articulates its...
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Michaela Patel
Sep 5, 20174 min read
DARE TO BE DIFFERENT
Imagine your whole life you wore a pair of shades... ...but only now you found out about their existence. You are waking up to a...
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Michaela Patel
Aug 28, 20174 min read
WIN OR LOSE OF RELATING
Relating is a TWO way exchange. Two way communication, mutual affection, and resulting CONNECTION. We pride ourselves on having great...
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Michaela Patel
Aug 20, 20176 min read
THE 'PERFECT' PARENTING SHOW
How do you know you are doing a good job of parenting? We are our children's VISUAL, LIVE EXAMPLE, based on which they form their beliefs...
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Michaela Patel
May 21, 20171 min read
WHAT I TELL MY CHILD
You are great and awesome. You were born loving, kind and generous. If others try to tell you otherwise - don't believe them. You are not...
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Michaela Patel
Aug 17, 20163 min read
TRUE REFLECTION 2
2. When we lose it with our children, we rage. Naturally we need time and space to calm down, wanting them to acknowledge how much they...
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Michaela Patel
Aug 17, 20162 min read
TRUE REFLECTION 1
Parenting is very simple. Or it could be, if parents became PRESENT to how they act in the presence of their child. We think our children...
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Michaela Patel
Jun 25, 20164 min read
INVERSE PARENTING
Are we the kind of parents we WISH we had growing up? And how much of our parenting is driven by our bruised Inner Child? Our Inner Child...
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