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I applaud you for making the effort in searching for the truth. It takes a great amount of courage and energy to say 'enough is enough' and go against your usual behaviour. Therefore I won't keep you any longer! My articles are 100% ad free and are a collection of my inner most realisations about love, relationships, life and happiness, put together for you to make sense of your own journey.
Michaela Patel
Mar 1, 20193 min read
HOW WE GET ILL BEING BRAVE
Our whole life we endevour to remain strong. 'Be brave!' is what we hear all the time. But do we exercise the right kind of bravery to...
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Michaela Patel
Aug 22, 20183 min read
ARE YOU INSECURE?
How and why do we distort the perception of ourselves for the worse?
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Michaela Patel
Jul 28, 20183 min read
LOVE ON TAP
What happens when we enter a relationship with a hurting heart? Do you want to hear the truth? Because I am here to tell you it. I will...
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Michaela Patel
Apr 10, 20183 min read
THE BEGINNING OF AN END
What happens when we approach the sell-by-date of our relationship? What decides on if we stay or move on? We tend to greatly hang on...
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Michaela Patel
Feb 11, 20183 min read
UNPLUGGED FROM LOVE
Everyone wants love. And you want it too! It is your most basic need. An inherent part of you, something that you ARE. With the start of...
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Michaela Patel
Feb 7, 20182 min read
WHY EMPATHS CARRY DRAMA? 2
Unhealed empaths grew up in environments where they have been forced to process others emotionally. Our carers knew nothing, and didn't...
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Michaela Patel
Jan 24, 20183 min read
HEALING YOUR HEART POST-DIVORCE 2
So to truly heal and not to temporarily cover up your pain you must notice that which is causing it. 3/ Get to know your thoughts and...
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Michaela Patel
Jan 24, 20183 min read
HEALING YOUR HEART POST-DIVORCE 1
The question of any fresh divorcee is 'How can I heal? I am hurting so much!' This article is dedicated to those who found themselves...
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Michaela Patel
Sep 17, 20173 min read
REPEATED CRUSHES
Have you ever found yourself in a painful situation which has repeated itself, involving similar kind of people with (yet again) negative...
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Michaela Patel
Sep 5, 20174 min read
DARE TO BE DIFFERENT
Imagine your whole life you wore a pair of shades... ...but only now you found out about their existence. You are waking up to a...
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Michaela Patel
Jul 22, 20173 min read
RELATIONSHIP GIVE OR TAKE
Relatioships aren't easy, are they? Relating to another implies constant negotiations. Push and pull. Give and take. Based on simple...
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Michaela Patel
Jul 13, 20172 min read
STRENGTH IN YOUR WEAKNESS
We find it hard to accept our weaknesses only if we (unknowingly) BELIEVE that we are weak... Why? Because the pain we already carry,...
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Michaela Patel
Jun 20, 20173 min read
FINDING HAPPINESS 3
The next question you get to repeat to yourself many times from this point onwards is HOW or WHAT DO I NEED TO CHANGE so that it doesn't...
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Michaela Patel
Jun 4, 20174 min read
FINDING HAPPINESS 1
A very good friend of mine had asked me: 'So how did you find true happiness?' I decided to dive deep under the surface of my...
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Michaela Patel
May 21, 20171 min read
WHAT I TELL MY CHILD
You are great and awesome. You were born loving, kind and generous. If others try to tell you otherwise - don't believe them. You are not...
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Michaela Patel
May 17, 20173 min read
SELF-LOVE BREAK DOWN 2
You admitted the TRUTH to yourself about you and others in your life... ...but your bravery is rewarded with some rather unpleasant...
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Michaela Patel
May 17, 20173 min read
SELF-LOVE BREAKDOWN 1
'Of course I love myself!' our mind tells us almost instantly when we are asked. We really think we DO love ourselves because 'Why not?...
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Michaela Patel
Apr 20, 20173 min read
LOVE COMES EASY 1
We are the happiest when we are being LOVING. It is a simple truth anyone can feel for themselves. Feeling love for others, and...
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Michaela Patel
Apr 9, 20174 min read
YOUR GUARDIAN ANGER
ANGER is such an everyday emotion. Yet we rarely know what to do with it. Similar to holding a loaded gun we often shoot ourselves in the...
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Michaela Patel
Mar 26, 20173 min read
UNDERSTANDING SELF-REJECTION 1
How are we meant to feel loved when we reject ourselves few times a day? It starts as soon as we wake up and walk into the bathroom:...
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