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I applaud you for making the effort in searching for the truth. It takes a great amount of courage and energy to say 'enough is enough' and go against your usual behaviour. Therefore I won't keep you any longer! My articles are 100% ad free and are a collection of my inner most realisations about love, relationships, life and happiness, put together for you to make sense of your own journey.
SOUL ECOLOGY
Using our energy wisely is crucial for getting far. Far meaning feeling happy, and be precisely where we want to be. Anyone who wishes to...
Michaela Patel
Apr 30, 20164 min read
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THE SELF-LOVE ARROW
Most of us are looking to be loved, cared for, and protected, subconsciously still looking for a parent ( rather than a partner ) to...
Michaela Patel
Apr 24, 20164 min read
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RE-FOCUS
I hear people saying: 'I hate love. I hate life.’ Well, we tend to love any activity we have MASTERED, and hate anything we haven’t. It...
Michaela Patel
Apr 14, 20164 min read
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RELATIONSHIPS 2 - THE QUESTIONS
When we are hurting, the quickest way to soothe our pain and fill the void we feel in our heart, is to find another partner. This works...
Michaela Patel
Apr 8, 20164 min read
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RELATIONSHIPS 1 - THE LOSS
So the person you have loved so dearly is now gone. He, or she, has left the relationship you put so much faith and hope into. All there...
Michaela Patel
Apr 7, 20163 min read
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LOVE-SCAM RELATIONSHIP 2
But then, one day sooner or later, comes a DISAGREEMENT. It may be a genuine, or a provoked one by the narcissist him/herself. You...
Michaela Patel
Apr 3, 20165 min read
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YOUR SPIRITUAL GURU
Did you notice how many NEW spiritual groups and leaders have appeared on the internet in recent months? Is this a result of the highly...
Michaela Patel
Feb 21, 20164 min read
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THE CONCEPT OF LOVE
Have you ever felt pain in connection with love ? Would you say that 'LOVE HURTS' ? If your answer is YES, I dare to say to you that you...
Michaela Patel
Feb 17, 20165 min read
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HAPPINESS
What is happiness? It is a feeling deriving from experiencing joy, which fluctuates depending on our FOCUS. Our focus, and the source of...
Michaela Patel
Feb 13, 20164 min read
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LOOKING GOOD - THE ILLUSION OF WORTH
We love having more. Bigger! Better! Newer stuff. It makes us feel good about ourselves. Doing, having or looking ‘better than' others...
Michaela Patel
Feb 11, 20163 min read
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LIFE LESSONS 2
Conditioning is a set of beliefs, FILTERS through which we view the world. First our parents made us believe things, shortly after that...
Michaela Patel
Feb 10, 20165 min read
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KNOW THYSELF
Do you enjoy time alone? It is a privilege for me to spend time in solitude. There is so much of an internal dialogue when I am in my own...
Michaela Patel
Feb 9, 20162 min read
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MY INTENTIONS
So I set up my new website…. I am excited to share my knowledge with a pure intention: to help you see YOUR struggle in mine. For you to...
Michaela Patel
Feb 5, 20163 min read
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THE ROAD OF LIFE 1
How come some of us are happy, yet others are not, when we all started with the exact same potential? We all have the potential to be the...
Michaela Patel
Feb 4, 20163 min read
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THE MOTHER AND HER INNER CHILD
MY INNER CHILD I see my inner child (my immature Self) from a perspective of my adult ( the mature Self) - from the perspective of who I...
Michaela Patel
Jan 29, 20163 min read
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NARCISSIST'S MASK
His GUILT was due to an indent in his mask of perfection. All guilt was because it was pointing to the defects in his image of a NICE...
Michaela Patel
Jan 26, 20162 min read
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HELPING A NARCISSIST
It is UNHEALTHY to want to bond with an unhealthy person - mentally and emotionally. Spiritually, I guess, it is needed as a lesson to...
Michaela Patel
Jan 25, 20163 min read
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STOP!
Do you feel like the history is repeating itself? Like all those people had some things in common, like you were dating various shades of...
Michaela Patel
Jan 23, 20162 min read
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LOVE?
Can I ever love anyone the way I used to? The 'over the heels', head spinning, 'focus-on-him-forgetting me' kind of love? No. It was...
Michaela Patel
Jan 22, 20161 min read
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PERFECTION 2
Our inner guidance is a voice of forgiveness and compassion. If we are to start following this voice, we have to forgive ourselves first...
Michaela Patel
Jan 10, 20163 min read
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