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I applaud you for making the effort in searching for the truth. It takes a great amount of courage and energy to say 'enough is enough' and go against your usual behaviour. Therefore I won't keep you any longer! My articles are 100% ad free and are a collection of my inner most realisations about love, relationships, life and happiness, put together for you to make sense of your own journey.
LOVE ON TAP
What happens when we enter a relationship with a hurting heart? Do you want to hear the truth? Because I am here to tell you it. I will...
Michaela Patel
Jul 28, 20183 min read
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UNDERSTANDING LOVE
LOVE. The four letter word everyone likes to understand and possess. ‘What is love and how can I find it?’ I get asked daily. Like a...
Michaela Patel
Apr 28, 20184 min read
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YOUR GUARDIAN ANGER
ANGER is such an everyday emotion. Yet we rarely know what to do with it. Similar to holding a loaded gun we often shoot ourselves in the...
Michaela Patel
Apr 9, 20174 min read
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ATTRACTION vs. TRUE LOVE 1
Attraction, seemingly powered by love, is frequently fuelled by our INSECURITIES... To truly love others you do not need to be attracted...
Michaela Patel
Dec 25, 20162 min read
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MANIPULATION AND RELATIONSHIPS 1
Manipulation is the black magic of relationships. How far are we willing to go in using it determines who tricks who... Some...
Michaela Patel
Dec 11, 20163 min read
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TO THE INSECURE YOU
So you like to FIX, change your partner to finally get from him/her what you didn't get as a child - the love, attention and care?...
Michaela Patel
Dec 7, 20162 min read
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UNDERNEATH THE MASK OF LOVE
Are you looking to find true love? Do you know that the one thing keeping you from experiencing true love is fear? Lets look at a little...
Michaela Patel
Nov 2, 20164 min read
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HEALING YOU 2
I'd like you to realise how you may have been affected by inadequate upbringing, by demonstrating how the pattern of my own false beliefs...
Michaela Patel
Sep 6, 20164 min read
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EMOTIONAL COMA
Doctor: 'How may I help you?' Patient: 'I am in pain for some time now. I don't know what is WRONG with me but I am NOT FEELING OK!'...
Michaela Patel
Jul 30, 20164 min read
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INVERSE PARENTING
Are we the kind of parents we WISH we had growing up? And how much of our parenting is driven by our bruised Inner Child? Our Inner Child...
Michaela Patel
Jun 25, 20164 min read
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OUR IDEAL PARTNER
Have you ever found yourself thinking 'I can't recognise him or her no more'? It is an awakening. Usually a rude one. It typically...
Michaela Patel
May 19, 20164 min read
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THE CRITICAL OTHER
Around a partner or a parent for whom nothing is ever good enough, we feel constantly down and angry, sluggish and tired. Whenever they...
Michaela Patel
May 7, 20164 min read
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RELATIONSHIPS 3 - THE TRUTH
Going into a relationship, all we know is that we want to find love. We want to be held to feel secure, protected, and cared for. We want...
Michaela Patel
Apr 14, 20163 min read
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LOOKING GOOD - THE ILLUSION OF WORTH
We love having more. Bigger! Better! Newer stuff. It makes us feel good about ourselves. Doing, having or looking ‘better than' others...
Michaela Patel
Feb 11, 20163 min read
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VICTIM
The only way to a TRUE love is through honesty. Admitting that you feel hurt by life, that you feel somehow incomplete. The only way you...
Michaela Patel
Jan 27, 20163 min read
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