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I applaud you for making the effort in searching for the truth. It takes a great amount of courage and energy to say 'enough is enough' and go against your usual behaviour. Therefore I won't keep you any longer! My articles are 100% ad free and are a collection of my inner most realisations about love, relationships, life and happiness, put together for you to make sense of your own journey.


YOUR INNER COMPASS: REALISE YOUR TRUE VALUE
What is validation and how much of it is needed for us to feel OK? Why do we seek acceptance from those we care about? And why do we...
Michaela Patel
Jan 13, 20204 min read
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UNHAPPY RELATIONSHIPS AND SELF-SABOTAGE - HOW DO WE UNKNOWINGLY SABOTAGE OUR HAPPINESS?
The topic of a relationship self-sabotage typically describes a conscious efforts of an individual to end a relationship. However, a...
Michaela Patel
Jul 1, 20195 min read
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THE POWER OF SEXY - HOW DO WE UNCONSCIOUSLY DEVALUE OURSELVES?
Why is being sexy so important to us? With the summer in full swing, the layers are coming off whilst the pressure to look hot is on. We...
Michaela Patel
Jun 1, 20193 min read
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EMOTIONAL RE-CYCLING - WHAT IS EMOTIONAL DUMPING AND HOW TO CLEAR OUR LIVES?
What is 'emotional garbage' and why are some of us stuck with mountains of it? What happens when we do not know how to permanently, and...
Michaela Patel
May 1, 20194 min read
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WHY DO WE HAVE NIGHTMARES?
Why do we have nightmares and how we benefit from understanding their messages?
Michaela Patel
Apr 1, 20195 min read
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FEELING NOT GOOD ENOUGH - HOW DO YOU GET IN YOUR WAY?
We so rely on them! The thoughts that make us feel good. All the motivational and positive messages fuel our joy and give us hope. But...
Michaela Patel
Feb 1, 20196 min read
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HAPPINESS 24/7
Why are we scared to feel and how is this impacting our happiness?
Michaela Patel
Sep 23, 20183 min read
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LOVE ON TAP
What happens when we enter a relationship with a hurting heart? Do you want to hear the truth? Because I am here to tell you it. I will...
Michaela Patel
Jul 28, 20183 min read
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UNDERSTANDING LOVE
LOVE. The four letter word everyone likes to understand and possess. ‘What is love and how can I find it?’ I get asked daily. Like a...
Michaela Patel
Apr 28, 20184 min read
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THE BEGINNING OF AN END
What happens when we approach the sell-by-date of our relationship? What decides on if we stay or move on? We tend to greatly hang on...
Michaela Patel
Apr 10, 20183 min read
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BREAKING NEWS
How often do you listen to the news? Daily? Hourly? Are you present to how does this very 'normal' activity alter your reality? We are...
Michaela Patel
Dec 17, 20174 min read
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YOU ARE POWERFUL
Us humans are infinitely powerful Beings. What truly weakens us is believing in our incapacity. So how did we come to believe that we...
Michaela Patel
Dec 3, 20173 min read
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PRICELESS RELATIONSHIP LESSONS
What have my past relationships taught me? That every person I engaged with was a reflection of where I was in life AT THAT POINT in...
Michaela Patel
Nov 12, 20174 min read
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DARE TO BE DIFFERENT
Imagine your whole life you wore a pair of shades... ...but only now you found out about their existence. You are waking up to a...
Michaela Patel
Sep 5, 20174 min read
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THE POWER OF SURRENDER
Acceptance is an act of SELF-CARE. Accepting what IS is clearly advantageous, yet for many of us surrender represents a disadvantage or...
Michaela Patel
Aug 11, 20175 min read
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RELATIONSHIP GIVE OR TAKE
Relatioships aren't easy, are they? Relating to another implies constant negotiations. Push and pull. Give and take. Based on simple...
Michaela Patel
Jul 22, 20173 min read
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STRENGTH IN YOUR WEAKNESS
We find it hard to accept our weaknesses only if we (unknowingly) BELIEVE that we are weak... Why? Because the pain we already carry,...
Michaela Patel
Jul 13, 20172 min read
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FINDING HAPPINESS 2
Sometimes the best place to start is to realise that you don't know. That you don't even know who you are. That you don't understand love...
Michaela Patel
Jun 11, 20174 min read
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SELF-LOVE BREAKDOWN 1
'Of course I love myself!' our mind tells us almost instantly when we are asked. We really think we DO love ourselves because 'Why not?...
Michaela Patel
May 17, 20173 min read
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LOVE COMES EASY 2
Why are we so keen on pretending? Why do we find it hard to show the real us to others? Because we believe that there is something the...
Michaela Patel
Apr 26, 20172 min read
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