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I applaud you for making the effort in searching for the truth. It takes a great amount of courage and energy to say 'enough is enough' and go against your usual behaviour. Therefore I won't keep you any longer! My articles are 100% ad free and are a collection of my inner most realisations about love, relationships, life and happiness, put together for you to make sense of your own journey.
Michaela Patel
Jan 13, 20204 min read
YOUR INNER COMPASS: REALISE YOUR TRUE VALUE
What is validation and how much of it is needed for us to feel OK? Why do we seek acceptance from those we care about? And why do we...
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Michaela Patel
Apr 10, 20183 min read
THE BEGINNING OF AN END
What happens when we approach the sell-by-date of our relationship? What decides on if we stay or move on? We tend to greatly hang on...
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Michaela Patel
Jan 24, 20183 min read
HEALING YOUR HEART POST-DIVORCE 2
So to truly heal and not to temporarily cover up your pain you must notice that which is causing it. 3/ Get to know your thoughts and...
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Michaela Patel
Aug 20, 20176 min read
THE 'PERFECT' PARENTING SHOW
How do you know you are doing a good job of parenting? We are our children's VISUAL, LIVE EXAMPLE, based on which they form their beliefs...
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Michaela Patel
Jul 22, 20173 min read
RELATIONSHIP GIVE OR TAKE
Relatioships aren't easy, are they? Relating to another implies constant negotiations. Push and pull. Give and take. Based on simple...
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Michaela Patel
Jun 4, 20174 min read
FINDING HAPPINESS 1
A very good friend of mine had asked me: 'So how did you find true happiness?' I decided to dive deep under the surface of my...
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Michaela Patel
Jul 30, 20164 min read
EMOTIONAL COMA
Doctor: 'How may I help you?' Patient: 'I am in pain for some time now. I don't know what is WRONG with me but I am NOT FEELING OK!'...
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Michaela Patel
Jul 26, 20163 min read
I NEED YOU...
Dear Soulmate, I need to find YOU... because I lost ME. I NEED you to love me❤️... because I feel unloveable 💔 I NEED you to hear how...
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Michaela Patel
May 19, 20164 min read
OUR IDEAL PARTNER
Have you ever found yourself thinking 'I can't recognise him or her no more'? It is an awakening. Usually a rude one. It typically...
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Michaela Patel
May 14, 20166 min read
KARMA 3
On one sunny morning, their daughter was born... After an initial excitement and when the novelty has worn off, their relationship...
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Michaela Patel
May 12, 20165 min read
KARMA 1
Karma isn’t some religious concept but a very REAL occurrence altering our daily lives. I like to demonstrate how karma works on a story...
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Michaela Patel
Apr 8, 20164 min read
RELATIONSHIPS 2 - THE QUESTIONS
When we are hurting, the quickest way to soothe our pain and fill the void we feel in our heart, is to find another partner. This works...
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Michaela Patel
Apr 7, 20163 min read
RELATIONSHIPS 1 - THE LOSS
So the person you have loved so dearly is now gone. He, or she, has left the relationship you put so much faith and hope into. All there...
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Michaela Patel
Apr 3, 20165 min read
LOVE-SCAM RELATIONSHIP 2
But then, one day sooner or later, comes a DISAGREEMENT. It may be a genuine, or a provoked one by the narcissist him/herself. You...
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Michaela Patel
Jan 26, 20162 min read
NARCISSIST'S MASK
His GUILT was due to an indent in his mask of perfection. All guilt was because it was pointing to the defects in his image of a NICE...
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Michaela Patel
Jan 17, 20162 min read
YOUR CHOICE
When you admit the TRUTH to yourself it always brings something with it. To the surface. Whatever it is, it must be welcomed - not...
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