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I applaud you for making the effort in searching for the truth. It takes a great amount of courage and energy to say 'enough is enough' and go against your usual behaviour. Therefore I won't keep you any longer! My articles are 100% ad free and are a collection of my inner most realisations about love, relationships, life and happiness, put together for you to make sense of your own journey.
YOUR INNER COMPASS: REALISE YOUR TRUE VALUE
What is validation and how much of it is needed for us to feel OK? Why do we seek acceptance from those we care about? And why do we...
Michaela Patel
Jan 13, 20204 min read
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UNHAPPY RELATIONSHIPS AND SELF-SABOTAGE - HOW DO WE UNKNOWINGLY SABOTAGE OUR HAPPINESS?
The topic of a relationship self-sabotage typically describes a conscious efforts of an individual to end a relationship. However, a...
Michaela Patel
Jul 1, 20195 min read
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ARE YOU INSECURE?
How and why do we distort the perception of ourselves for the worse?
Michaela Patel
Aug 22, 20183 min read
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UNDERSTANDING LOVE
LOVE. The four letter word everyone likes to understand and possess. ‘What is love and how can I find it?’ I get asked daily. Like a...
Michaela Patel
Apr 28, 20184 min read
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PRICELESS RELATIONSHIP LESSONS
What have my past relationships taught me? That every person I engaged with was a reflection of where I was in life AT THAT POINT in...
Michaela Patel
Nov 12, 20174 min read
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REPEATED CRUSHES
Have you ever found yourself in a painful situation which has repeated itself, involving similar kind of people with (yet again) negative...
Michaela Patel
Sep 17, 20173 min read
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FINDING HAPPINESS 2
Sometimes the best place to start is to realise that you don't know. That you don't even know who you are. That you don't understand love...
Michaela Patel
Jun 11, 20174 min read
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FINDING HAPPINESS 1
A very good friend of mine had asked me: 'So how did you find true happiness?' I decided to dive deep under the surface of my...
Michaela Patel
Jun 4, 20174 min read
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LOVE COMES EASY 2
Why are we so keen on pretending? Why do we find it hard to show the real us to others? Because we believe that there is something the...
Michaela Patel
Apr 26, 20172 min read
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UNDERSTANDING SELF-REJECTION 1
How are we meant to feel loved when we reject ourselves few times a day? It starts as soon as we wake up and walk into the bathroom:...
Michaela Patel
Mar 26, 20173 min read
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YOUR TRIGGERS
The one who triggers you the most is your biggest teacher. 'Really!?' you ask in disbelief. 'How can someone who makes me so mad teach me...
Michaela Patel
Mar 12, 20174 min read
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'DO YOU LOVE ME?'
‘Do you really love me?’ we ask others like our life depends on it. And it often does… We deem this question the alpha and omega of our...
Michaela Patel
Feb 12, 20173 min read
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LOVEABILITY AND WORTH
We often judge, compare and criticise. To make ourselves feel better we put others down. What we don't realise is that we experience...
Michaela Patel
Dec 18, 20162 min read
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TO THE INSECURE YOU
So you like to FIX, change your partner to finally get from him/her what you didn't get as a child - the love, attention and care?...
Michaela Patel
Dec 7, 20162 min read
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PRACTICING SELF-LOVE
PRACTICING SELF-LOVE SIMPLY MEANS BECOMING OUR BEST FRIEND. It start with changing the way we see and behave towards ourselves by...
Michaela Patel
Sep 26, 20163 min read
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HEALING YOU 2
I'd like you to realise how you may have been affected by inadequate upbringing, by demonstrating how the pattern of my own false beliefs...
Michaela Patel
Sep 6, 20164 min read
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THE INSECURE JUDGE
First mirrors, dated to around 6000BC, were just polished pieces of volcanic stones. Manufactured glass mirrors first appeared in Venice...
Michaela Patel
Jul 8, 20163 min read
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WHO IS TALKING?
How skilful are you in observing the TALKER in your head? Your life may not be the same after reading this. Our journey to self-love...
Michaela Patel
Jul 3, 20164 min read
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DO YOU LOVE... YOU ?
Do you love yourself? We would like to think so, wouldn't we? Yet thinking and DOING are two, very different activities. What we know...
Michaela Patel
Jun 23, 20166 min read
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KARMA 2
He found a woman he wanted to marry. On the outside, his relationship with her looked like any other relationship. They were IN LOVE......
Michaela Patel
May 13, 20164 min read
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