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I applaud you for making the effort in searching for the truth. It takes a great amount of courage and energy to say 'enough is enough' and go against your usual behaviour. Therefore I won't keep you any longer! My articles are 100% ad free and are a collection of my inner most realisations about love, relationships, life and happiness, put together for you to make sense of your own journey.
Michaela Patel
Nov 9, 20245 min read
HOW WE LOSE OURSELVES IN LYING AND HOW WE FIND OUR WAY BACK TO BEING AUTHENTIC
A deep exploration into how we lose ourselves in lying and how we find our way back to being authentic.
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Michaela Patel
Sep 8, 20246 min read
THE DYNAMICS OF WOMEN DATING IMMATURE MEN AND THE IMPACT ON INTIMACY
Uncover the complexities of women dating immature men and the impact on intimacy.
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Michaela Patel
Aug 25, 20247 min read
HOW EASY IS IT TO LEAVE AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP?
An analysis of why it isn't easy to leave a chronically abusive relationship
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Michaela Patel
Apr 17, 202410 min read
ARE YOU BEING COERCIVELY CONTROLLED BY YOUR PARTNER?
This is my personal story describing my experiences with a coercively controlling partner.
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Michaela Patel
Nov 11, 20237 min read
ARE YOU DEALING WITH AN ENTITLED, DIFFICULT PERSON?
A deep dive into the psyche of an entitled, difficult person.
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Michaela Patel
Aug 16, 20236 min read
HOOKED ONLINE - HOW WE PAY FOR MINDLESS SCROLLING
Why do we get hooked online and what does mindless scrolling cost us? How can we stop ourselves and why we need to?
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Michaela Patel
May 24, 20235 min read
TRANSACTIONAL LOVE: HOW IS CONDITIONAL RELATING AFFECTING OUR ABILITY TO LOVE OURSELVES
What is transactional love? Discern true love and its clear advantages!
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Michaela Patel
Jan 11, 20236 min read
COVERT AGGRESSION 2
What is covert abuse and why are we prone to enmeshment with manipulative, controlling partners?
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Michaela Patel
Apr 20, 20227 min read
POWER STRUGGLE - THE ENEMY OF LOVE
What are our personal rights and why do we struggle to find true love in relationships? How does empowered relating look like?
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Michaela Patel
Mar 6, 20224 min read
EGOTISM - THE POLLUTED MIND
What is egotism and how it pollutes the society? How is oversimplified thinking threatening our peace?
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Michaela Patel
Dec 3, 20215 min read
THE ART OF SELF-DECEPTION: WHAT BURDENS OUR AUTHENTIC SOULS
What burdens our authentic souls? How exactly does our false Self operate to our disadvantage?
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Michaela Patel
Sep 26, 20215 min read
SELF-LOVE COVER UP: WHAT SELF-LOVE ISN'T
Recently, I have noticed a number of bitter comments popping up on various self-help sites. Usually posted by people who have experienced...
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Michaela Patel
Sep 17, 20217 min read
OUR TRAUMAS AND HOW THEY AFFECT OUR SELF-ESTEEM
What is trauma, how can it change someone’s life, and what needs to happen for it to heal? Trauma is any experience which has altered the...
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Michaela Patel
Jul 30, 20215 min read
ADMIRE THYSELF: WHY IS SELF-VALIDATION VITAL TO OUR HAPPINESS
Why is self-validation important to our happiness?
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Michaela Patel
Apr 27, 20214 min read
TOUGHEN YOUR CORE - NURTURE YOU
All actions ever taken by humans point either towards love, or the lack of it. The latter leads to hurt rollover for many generations and...
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Michaela Patel
Oct 25, 20205 min read
THE PRICE WE PAY: HOW CONSUMERISM DULLS OUR SOULS
Consumerism dulls our souls. Do you know your true value?
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Michaela Patel
Aug 28, 20206 min read
CONTROLLING RELATIONSHIPS: HOW TO DEAL WITH BULLIES
How does control and abuse come about? Restore your sanity and rescue your happiness!
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Michaela Patel
Apr 20, 20205 min read
ARE YOU CO-DEPENDENT?
Are you addicted to the idea of love?
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Michaela Patel
Apr 10, 20204 min read
WOBBLY PARENTING: COMMON MISTAKES OF PARENTING AND HOW THEY SHAPE OUR CHILDREN
I am a loving, deeply caring, for most parts aware parent who every so often feels like total failure... Any truly responsible parent...
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Michaela Patel
Jan 13, 20204 min read
YOUR INNER COMPASS: REALISE YOUR TRUE VALUE
What is validation and how much of it is needed for us to feel OK? Why do we seek acceptance from those we care about? And why do we...
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