LOVE COMES EASY 2
Why are we so keen on pretending? Why do we find it hard to show the real us to others? Because we believe that there is something the...
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I applaud you for making the effort in searching for the truth. It takes a great amount of courage and energy to say 'enough is enough' and go against your usual behaviour. Therefore I won't keep you any longer! My articles are 100% ad free and are a collection of my inner most realisations about love, relationships, life and happiness, put together for you to make sense of your own journey.
Michaela Patel
Apr 20, 20173 min read
LOVE COMES EASY 1
We are the happiest when we are being LOVING. It is a simple truth anyone can feel for themselves. Feeling love for others, and...
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Michaela Patel
Apr 2, 20172 min read
UNDERSTANDING SELF-REJECTION 2
We are so eager to find a trustworthy partner, our Soulmate... We frantically seek someone who will love us because we dislike, even...
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Michaela Patel
Mar 5, 20173 min read
BOUNDARIES 3 - YOUR ANGER
Those whose boundaries have been consistently crashed on one end build a REACTIONARY boundary to overcompensate for the lack of space in...
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Michaela Patel
Mar 5, 20172 min read
BOUNDARIES 1 - YOUR KNOWLEDGE
Our carers were the creators (and destroyers, surprise-surprise!) of our boundaries, of what we allow and what we absolutely don't. For...
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Michaela Patel
Mar 5, 20173 min read
BOUNDARIES 2 - YOUR COMMUNICATION
You now know that in order to use the energy of your anger CORRECTLY you will need to stop taking it out on others, or on yourself by...
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Michaela Patel
Feb 19, 20173 min read
LOVE ME PLEASE!
'I JUST WANT TO BE LOVED !' our Inner Child screams when feeling lonely, misunderstood, or rejected. This has happened to all of us at...
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Michaela Patel
Feb 12, 20173 min read
'DO YOU LOVE ME?'
‘Do you really love me?’ we ask others like our life depends on it. And it often does… We deem this question the alpha and omega of our...
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Michaela Patel
Jan 29, 20173 min read
BLIND SPOTS
Blind spots are areas of our unawareness. We often THINK that we know how we are being, yet completely lacking insight. We could divide...
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Michaela Patel
Jan 22, 20173 min read
REALITY CHECK
Making our happiness independent of HAVING (money, relationships, knowledge) brings complete freedom into our life. We are no longer...
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Michaela Patel
Jan 4, 20173 min read
ARE YOU NICE?
'Nice' because you want to be liked, OR because it reflects who you truly are and how you deep down feel about yourself? Nice because you...
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Michaela Patel
Dec 28, 20162 min read
ATTRACTION vs. TRUE LOVE 2
As adults, the fastest way to feel ACCEPTED is through sleeping with another. Physical touch, skin to skin contact, reminds us of the...
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Michaela Patel
Dec 25, 20162 min read
ATTRACTION vs. TRUE LOVE 1
Attraction, seemingly powered by love, is frequently fuelled by our INSECURITIES... To truly love others you do not need to be attracted...
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Michaela Patel
Dec 18, 20162 min read
LOVEABILITY AND WORTH
We often judge, compare and criticise. To make ourselves feel better we put others down. What we don't realise is that we experience...
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Michaela Patel
Dec 11, 20163 min read
MANIPULATION AND RELATIONSHIPS 2
When you have no desire, nor need, to justify your dos and don'ts to anyone but YOU, you have established a solid relationship with...
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Michaela Patel
Dec 11, 20163 min read
MANIPULATION AND RELATIONSHIPS 1
Manipulation is the black magic of relationships. How far are we willing to go in using it determines who tricks who... Some...
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Michaela Patel
Dec 7, 20162 min read
TO THE INSECURE YOU
So you like to FIX, change your partner to finally get from him/her what you didn't get as a child - the love, attention and care?...
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Michaela Patel
Nov 30, 20162 min read
CHASING ACCEPTANCE?
Number one HIDDEN INTENTION driving our behaviour is to feel accepted. Remember those first achievements and failures at school? Remember...
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Michaela Patel
Nov 23, 20163 min read
DEPTH OF CONNECTION - THE COMMUNICATION
What kind of space opens up for you when you come to communicate your wants and needs to your partner? Expressing ourselves isn't always...
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Michaela Patel
Nov 15, 20163 min read
DEPTH OF CONNECTION - THE RESPONSIBILITY
Relationships work as long as both partners want the same. When we are on the same page we feel we can take on the whole world together,...
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