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I applaud you for making the effort in searching for the truth. It takes a great amount of courage and energy to say 'enough is enough' and go against your usual behaviour. Therefore I won't keep you any longer! My articles are 100% ad free and are a collection of my inner most realisations about love, relationships, life and happiness, put together for you to make sense of your own journey.
ARE YOU INSECURE?
How and why do we distort the perception of ourselves for the worse?
Michaela Patel
Aug 22, 20183 min read
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THE JAR OF HEARTS 1 - WHY DO WE FEEL EMPTY?
Imagine your heart as a glass jar. It is filled with sweets. Love hearts if you like. Your jar is full to the brim and it is hard to keep...
Michaela Patel
Apr 23, 20183 min read
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WHY EMPATHS CARRY DRAMA? 1
Us empaths, we are highly tuned to the EMOTIONAL IMBALANCE of our environment. And because we are so emotionally sensitive, we are drawn...
Michaela Patel
Feb 7, 20183 min read
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THE SELFISHNESS OF SAYING 'NO'
Why do we find it hard to say 'NO' to others? In short, the answer is: Because saying 'YES' is our forte. Having practiced the same since...
Michaela Patel
Jan 10, 20183 min read
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DO YOU DESERVE RESPECT?
Who doesn't like to be respected? But what IS respect and can we earn respect by reaching certain age or status? In the FALSE world of...
Michaela Patel
Nov 26, 20172 min read
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PRICELESS RELATIONSHIP LESSONS
What have my past relationships taught me? That every person I engaged with was a reflection of where I was in life AT THAT POINT in...
Michaela Patel
Nov 12, 20174 min read
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MIND'S FOOL
Every bit of information we receive from the outside world gets filed away. Stored in our mind's library of beliefs it changes our...
Michaela Patel
Sep 24, 20173 min read
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WIN OR LOSE OF RELATING
Relating is a TWO way exchange. Two way communication, mutual affection, and resulting CONNECTION. We pride ourselves on having great...
Michaela Patel
Aug 28, 20174 min read
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THE 'PERFECT' PARENTING SHOW
How do you know you are doing a good job of parenting? We are our children's VISUAL, LIVE EXAMPLE, based on which they form their beliefs...
Michaela Patel
Aug 20, 20176 min read
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POSITIVE PARENTAL CONDITIONING?
How great, happy, loving and kind would our children be if we managed to flood their belief system with POSITIVE messages about...
Michaela Patel
Jun 28, 20174 min read
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FINDING HAPPINESS 1
A very good friend of mine had asked me: 'So how did you find true happiness?' I decided to dive deep under the surface of my...
Michaela Patel
Jun 4, 20174 min read
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WHAT I TELL MY CHILD
You are great and awesome. You were born loving, kind and generous. If others try to tell you otherwise - don't believe them. You are not...
Michaela Patel
May 21, 20171 min read
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SELF-LOVE BREAK DOWN 2
You admitted the TRUTH to yourself about you and others in your life... ...but your bravery is rewarded with some rather unpleasant...
Michaela Patel
May 17, 20173 min read
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WHY CRYING IS GOOD AND WHAT IS IMPATHY?
'I haven't cried Mummy because I am strong!' said my 5 year old son the other day. He was waiting for me to say 'WELL DONE, Sweetheart.'...
Michaela Patel
May 10, 20174 min read
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LOVE COMES EASY 1
We are the happiest when we are being LOVING. It is a simple truth anyone can feel for themselves. Feeling love for others, and...
Michaela Patel
Apr 20, 20173 min read
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BOUNDARIES 3 - YOUR ANGER
Those whose boundaries have been consistently crashed on one end build a REACTIONARY boundary to overcompensate for the lack of space in...
Michaela Patel
Mar 5, 20173 min read
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BOUNDARIES 1 - YOUR KNOWLEDGE
Our carers were the creators (and destroyers, surprise-surprise!) of our boundaries, of what we allow and what we absolutely don't. For...
Michaela Patel
Mar 5, 20172 min read
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LOVE YOUR TRIBE
What is your tribe like? Are your being unknowingly manipulated? Hate or love? Negativity or positivity? War or peace? Suffering or...
Michaela Patel
Feb 26, 20174 min read
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LOVE ME PLEASE!
'I JUST WANT TO BE LOVED !' our Inner Child screams when feeling lonely, misunderstood, or rejected. This has happened to all of us at...
Michaela Patel
Feb 19, 20173 min read
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BLIND SPOTS
Blind spots are areas of our unawareness. We often THINK that we know how we are being, yet completely lacking insight. We could divide...
Michaela Patel
Jan 29, 20173 min read
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