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I applaud you for making the effort in searching for the truth. It takes a great amount of courage and energy to say 'enough is enough' and go against your usual behaviour. Therefore I won't keep you any longer! My articles are 100% ad free and are a collection of my inner most realisations about love, relationships, life and happiness, put together for you to make sense of your own journey.
Michaela Patel
Jan 57 min read
BRAINWASHED BY YOUR PARTNER: RECOGNISING COVERT ABUSE AND RECLAIMING YOUR TRUTH
Learn how to recognise manipulation in relationship and reclaim your truth
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Michaela Patel
Jan 15 min read
IS THERE SOMETHING WRONG WITH YOU FOR NOT WANTING TO BE INTIMATE?
Exploration of how trauma influences our suppressed sexual needs and desire for intimacy in relationships.
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Michaela Patel
Sep 8, 20246 min read
THE DYNAMICS OF WOMEN DATING IMMATURE MEN AND THE IMPACT ON INTIMACY
Uncover the complexities of women dating immature men and the impact on intimacy.
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Michaela Patel
Aug 25, 20247 min read
HOW EASY IS IT TO LEAVE AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP?
An analysis of why it isn't easy to leave a chronically abusive relationship
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Michaela Patel
May 18, 20247 min read
UNCOVERING THE IDENTITIES OF VICTIMS AND PERPETRATORS OF COERCIVE CONTROL: WHAT YOU NEED TO KNOW
Uncovering the identities of victims and perpetrators of coercive control: what you need to know
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Michaela Patel
Apr 17, 202410 min read
ARE YOU BEING COERCIVELY CONTROLLED BY YOUR PARTNER?
This is my personal story describing my experiences with a coercively controlling partner.
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Michaela Patel
May 24, 20235 min read
TRANSACTIONAL LOVE: HOW IS CONDITIONAL RELATING AFFECTING OUR ABILITY TO LOVE OURSELVES
What is transactional love? Discern true love and its clear advantages!
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Michaela Patel
May 3, 20235 min read
HOW DOES EMOTIONAL NEGLECT SHOW UP IN RELATIONSHIPS?
What is childhood emotional neglect and how does it affect your ability to find a compatible partner?
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Michaela Patel
Jan 11, 20236 min read
COVERT AGGRESSION 2
What is covert abuse and why are we prone to enmeshment with manipulative, controlling partners?
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Michaela Patel
Jul 30, 20215 min read
ADMIRE THYSELF: WHY IS SELF-VALIDATION VITAL TO OUR HAPPINESS
Why is self-validation important to our happiness?
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Michaela Patel
Apr 27, 20214 min read
TOUGHEN YOUR CORE - NURTURE YOU
All actions ever taken by humans point either towards love, or the lack of it. The latter leads to hurt rollover for many generations and...
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Michaela Patel
Sep 30, 20205 min read
MIND-THE-GAP: THE WAY OUT OF THE MIND'S MANY RABBIT HOLES
Are you stuck in a self-defeating cycle of thinking? The truth is, most of us are... 'Paranoia and self-loathing is like an imaginary dog...
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Michaela Patel
Aug 28, 20206 min read
CONTROLLING RELATIONSHIPS: HOW TO DEAL WITH BULLIES
How does control and abuse come about? Restore your sanity and rescue your happiness!
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Michaela Patel
Aug 19, 20203 min read
PATRIARCHY HANDCUFFS: WHY IS PATRIARCHY BAD FOR EVERYONE
Why is patriarchy bad for everyone?
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Michaela Patel
Apr 10, 20204 min read
WOBBLY PARENTING: COMMON MISTAKES OF PARENTING AND HOW THEY SHAPE OUR CHILDREN
I am a loving, deeply caring, for most parts aware parent who every so often feels like total failure... Any truly responsible parent...
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Michaela Patel
Jun 1, 20193 min read
THE POWER OF SEXY - HOW DO WE UNCONSCIOUSLY DEVALUE OURSELVES?
Why is being sexy so important to us? With the summer in full swing, the layers are coming off whilst the pressure to look hot is on. We...
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Michaela Patel
Jan 1, 20193 min read
FLIRTING - THE GAME WITH A PLAN
Lets kick off this New Year with an almost ancient, nevertheless, ever-interesting topic which affects us all. Examining our hidden...
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Michaela Patel
Nov 30, 20183 min read
WHAT YOU REALLY WANT - HOW IS COPYING OTHERS MAKING US SUFFER
Why is it important to stop and re-evaluate our priorities? Why do we end up juggling so much? Can we ever achieve an inner freedom?
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Michaela Patel
Oct 17, 20183 min read
YOUR EMOTIONAL BODY
Why is it important to acknowledge and care for our emotional body?
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Michaela Patel
Aug 22, 20183 min read
ARE YOU INSECURE?
How and why do we distort the perception of ourselves for the worse?
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