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I applaud you for making the effort in searching for the truth. It takes a great amount of courage and energy to say 'enough is enough' and go against your usual behaviour. Therefore I won't keep you any longer! My articles are 100% ad free and are a collection of my inner most realisations about love, relationships, life and happiness, put together for you to make sense of your own journey.
THE JAR OF HEARTS 1 - WHY DO WE FEEL EMPTY?
Imagine your heart as a glass jar. It is filled with sweets. Love hearts if you like. Your jar is full to the brim and it is hard to keep...
Michaela Patel
Apr 23, 20183 min read
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THE BEGINNING OF AN END
What happens when we approach the sell-by-date of our relationship? What decides on if we stay or move on? We tend to greatly hang on...
Michaela Patel
Apr 10, 20183 min read
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SELF-WORTH AND RELATIONSHIPS
Do you have a healthy self-esteem? How does low self-worth show up in your relationships? Have you experienced lack of intimacy, no sense...
Michaela Patel
Mar 11, 20184 min read
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UNDERSTANDING DEPRESSION
Many of us have been there. A dark, dark place. A long tunnel. So long that you cannot see the light at the end of it. You have no clue...
Michaela Patel
Mar 2, 20185 min read
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UNPLUGGED FROM LOVE
Everyone wants love. And you want it too! It is your most basic need. An inherent part of you, something that you ARE. With the start of...
Michaela Patel
Feb 11, 20183 min read
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WHY EMPATHS CARRY DRAMA? 2
Unhealed empaths grew up in environments where they have been forced to process others emotionally. Our carers knew nothing, and didn't...
Michaela Patel
Feb 7, 20182 min read
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WHY EMPATHS CARRY DRAMA? 1
Us empaths, we are highly tuned to the EMOTIONAL IMBALANCE of our environment. And because we are so emotionally sensitive, we are drawn...
Michaela Patel
Feb 7, 20183 min read
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HEALING YOUR HEART POST-DIVORCE 2
So to truly heal and not to temporarily cover up your pain you must notice that which is causing it. 3/ Get to know your thoughts and...
Michaela Patel
Jan 24, 20183 min read
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HEALING YOUR HEART POST-DIVORCE 1
The question of any fresh divorcee is 'How can I heal? I am hurting so much!' This article is dedicated to those who found themselves...
Michaela Patel
Jan 24, 20183 min read
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BREAKING NEWS
How often do you listen to the news? Daily? Hourly? Are you present to how does this very 'normal' activity alter your reality? We are...
Michaela Patel
Dec 17, 20174 min read
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YOUR ULTIMATE BETRAYAL
How often do you betray yourself? 'Oh what are you talking about!? I would never do that!' your Ego immediately articulates its...
Michaela Patel
Oct 8, 20172 min read
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THE 'PERFECT' PARENTING SHOW
How do you know you are doing a good job of parenting? We are our children's VISUAL, LIVE EXAMPLE, based on which they form their beliefs...
Michaela Patel
Aug 20, 20176 min read
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THE POWER OF SURRENDER
Acceptance is an act of SELF-CARE. Accepting what IS is clearly advantageous, yet for many of us surrender represents a disadvantage or...
Michaela Patel
Aug 11, 20175 min read
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POWERLESS REALITY?
Are you stuck in life? Do you wish things were different? Perhaps you like to learn how to change things and move on? Yes, our ability to...
Michaela Patel
Aug 2, 20173 min read
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RELATIONSHIP GIVE OR TAKE
Relatioships aren't easy, are they? Relating to another implies constant negotiations. Push and pull. Give and take. Based on simple...
Michaela Patel
Jul 22, 20173 min read
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STRENGTH IN YOUR WEAKNESS
We find it hard to accept our weaknesses only if we (unknowingly) BELIEVE that we are weak... Why? Because the pain we already carry,...
Michaela Patel
Jul 13, 20172 min read
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POSITIVE PARENTAL CONDITIONING?
How great, happy, loving and kind would our children be if we managed to flood their belief system with POSITIVE messages about...
Michaela Patel
Jun 28, 20174 min read
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FINDING HAPPINESS 3
The next question you get to repeat to yourself many times from this point onwards is HOW or WHAT DO I NEED TO CHANGE so that it doesn't...
Michaela Patel
Jun 20, 20173 min read
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FINDING HAPPINESS 2
Sometimes the best place to start is to realise that you don't know. That you don't even know who you are. That you don't understand love...
Michaela Patel
Jun 11, 20174 min read
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FINDING HAPPINESS 1
A very good friend of mine had asked me: 'So how did you find true happiness?' I decided to dive deep under the surface of my...
Michaela Patel
Jun 4, 20174 min read
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