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I applaud you for making the effort in searching for the truth. It takes a great amount of courage and energy to say 'enough is enough' and go against your usual behaviour. Therefore I won't keep you any longer! My articles are 100% ad free and are a collection of my inner most realisations about love, relationships, life and happiness, put together for you to make sense of your own journey.
INVERSE PARENTING
Are we the kind of parents we WISH we had growing up? And how much of our parenting is driven by our bruised Inner Child? Our Inner Child...
Michaela Patel
Jun 25, 20164 min read
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ARE YOU A RELATIONSHIP ADDICT?
I was by his side to make him happy. It was a self-imposed task my happiness depended on. I have voluntarily handed the permission to...
Michaela Patel
Jun 16, 20163 min read
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SELF-SEEKING
Attention seeking is a common insecurity. We like to be showered with attention, knowing OTHERS love us. The more attention we seek, the...
Michaela Patel
Jun 8, 20164 min read
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COMPULSION TO HELP 2
I have lived most of my life unaware of my ability. I didn't know I am highly empathic. I thought the way I feel is no different to...
Michaela Patel
May 25, 20164 min read
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COMPULSION TO HELP 1
Do others confide in you? Do you happily consult them on their life troubles, because you understand their suffering? Knowing you can...
Michaela Patel
May 22, 20165 min read
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OUR IDEAL PARTNER
Have you ever found yourself thinking 'I can't recognise him or her no more'? It is an awakening. Usually a rude one. It typically...
Michaela Patel
May 19, 20164 min read
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KARMA 3
On one sunny morning, their daughter was born... After an initial excitement and when the novelty has worn off, their relationship...
Michaela Patel
May 14, 20166 min read
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KARMA 2
He found a woman he wanted to marry. On the outside, his relationship with her looked like any other relationship. They were IN LOVE......
Michaela Patel
May 13, 20164 min read
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THE CRITICAL OTHER
Around a partner or a parent for whom nothing is ever good enough, we feel constantly down and angry, sluggish and tired. Whenever they...
Michaela Patel
May 7, 20164 min read
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SELF-TALK ON LOVE & WORTH
A typical conversation of our insecure Self with our mature, wise Self, as most of us have experienced it. Which out of these two voices...
Michaela Patel
May 2, 20167 min read
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RE-FOCUS
I hear people saying: 'I hate love. I hate life.’ Well, we tend to love any activity we have MASTERED, and hate anything we haven’t. It...
Michaela Patel
Apr 14, 20164 min read
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RELATIONSHIPS 3 - THE TRUTH
Going into a relationship, all we know is that we want to find love. We want to be held to feel secure, protected, and cared for. We want...
Michaela Patel
Apr 14, 20163 min read
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RELATIONSHIPS 2 - THE QUESTIONS
When we are hurting, the quickest way to soothe our pain and fill the void we feel in our heart, is to find another partner. This works...
Michaela Patel
Apr 8, 20164 min read
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RELATIONSHIPS 1 - THE LOSS
So the person you have loved so dearly is now gone. He, or she, has left the relationship you put so much faith and hope into. All there...
Michaela Patel
Apr 7, 20163 min read
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LOVE-SCAM RELATIONSHIP 2
But then, one day sooner or later, comes a DISAGREEMENT. It may be a genuine, or a provoked one by the narcissist him/herself. You...
Michaela Patel
Apr 3, 20165 min read
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LOVE-SCAM RELATIONSHIP 1
Do you feel that you are the giver, the nurturer, and your partner the taker? Is the topic of your conversations often about them? Do you...
Michaela Patel
Apr 3, 20164 min read
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MISSION IMPOSSIBLE?
My blogs are an attempt to wake you up from the nightmare you don't know you are dreaming, to the emotional pain you feel but fail to...
Michaela Patel
Mar 30, 20163 min read
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INNER PEACE DE-CODED
It is so important to understand ourselves. To know WHAT WE FEEL. To recognise various emotional states against our emotional...
Michaela Patel
Mar 29, 20166 min read
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QUESTION TRADITIONS
Do we owe our parents? How much of OUR LIFE do we have to give, to pay off our deeds to them for bringing us into this world? Yes, they...
Michaela Patel
Mar 24, 20164 min read
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UNDERSTAND YOUR MIND TO GAIN A SENSE OF CONTROL
'Rule your mind or it will rule you' said the Buddha. But how? How can we stop our habitual thinking and take control over our...
Michaela Patel
Mar 23, 20165 min read
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