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I applaud you for making the effort in searching for the truth. It takes a great amount of courage and energy to say 'enough is enough' and go against your usual behaviour. Therefore I won't keep you any longer! My articles are 100% ad free and are a collection of my inner most realisations about love, relationships, life and happiness, put together for you to make sense of your own journey.
SELF-QUESTIONING
Even though others can offer an occasional OUTSIDE perspective, we cannot really get to know ourselves by talking to others. Others can...
Michaela Patel
Jan 11, 20172 min read
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ATTRACTION vs. TRUE LOVE 2
As adults, the fastest way to feel ACCEPTED is through sleeping with another. Physical touch, skin to skin contact, reminds us of the...
Michaela Patel
Dec 28, 20162 min read
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ATTRACTION vs. TRUE LOVE 1
Attraction, seemingly powered by love, is frequently fuelled by our INSECURITIES... To truly love others you do not need to be attracted...
Michaela Patel
Dec 25, 20162 min read
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DEPTH OF CONNECTION - THE COMMUNICATION
What kind of space opens up for you when you come to communicate your wants and needs to your partner? Expressing ourselves isn't always...
Michaela Patel
Nov 23, 20163 min read
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DEPTH OF CONNECTION - THE RESPONSIBILITY
Relationships work as long as both partners want the same. When we are on the same page we feel we can take on the whole world together,...
Michaela Patel
Nov 15, 20163 min read
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PAINFUL EMOTIONS?
We are rarely taught about our emotions at home. Oftentimes we are unable to even name what we feel due to emotional repression our...
Michaela Patel
Nov 9, 20164 min read
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EXPERIENCING CHILDHOOD NEGLECT AND ITS REPERCUSSIONS ON ADULT RELATIONSHIPS
Could your actions be subconsciously driven by your unfulfilled childhood needs? What are your needs and are they healthy? Our basic...
Michaela Patel
Oct 12, 20164 min read
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ARE YOU SMARTER THAN YOUR SMARTPHONE?
Is increasingly smart technology outsmarting us by taking away the power over our life and decision making? From bracelets telling us we...
Michaela Patel
Oct 12, 20163 min read
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FEAR OR LOVE?
ALL our intentions are driven by these two opposing forces - by darkness, or by light. Saying 'yes' or 'no' to things is driven by us...
Michaela Patel
Sep 17, 20163 min read
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PEACEFUL REALITY
Would you like more peace in life starting right now? There are 3 things you can change with reading the last sentence of this article....
Michaela Patel
Aug 31, 20164 min read
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BECOME YOUR THERAPIST
To get to know oneself, one has to ASK questions. For every WHY there is a BECAUSE. Nothing we do is without a reason. No action we take...
Michaela Patel
Aug 24, 20166 min read
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TRUE REFLECTION 2
2. When we lose it with our children, we rage. Naturally we need time and space to calm down, wanting them to acknowledge how much they...
Michaela Patel
Aug 17, 20163 min read
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LOVE AND ATTENTION
Do you think that being attentive equals being LOVING? Most of us assume so. Some of us build our relationships on this assumption with...
Michaela Patel
Jul 16, 20164 min read
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SUCCESS IN THE MOMENT
Happiness, like peace, is only achieved and felt in the moment as RIGHT NOW is all that exists. Long lasting happiness and peace, meaning...
Michaela Patel
Jun 29, 20164 min read
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COMPULSION TO HELP 2
I have lived most of my life unaware of my ability. I didn't know I am highly empathic. I thought the way I feel is no different to...
Michaela Patel
May 25, 20164 min read
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COMPULSION TO HELP 1
Do others confide in you? Do you happily consult them on their life troubles, because you understand their suffering? Knowing you can...
Michaela Patel
May 22, 20165 min read
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RELATIONSHIPS 3 - THE TRUTH
Going into a relationship, all we know is that we want to find love. We want to be held to feel secure, protected, and cared for. We want...
Michaela Patel
Apr 14, 20163 min read
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PROTECT YOUR HAPPINESS
We teach others how we like to be treated, what we accept, and what we don't. It sounds easy and straightforward, but is it really that...
Michaela Patel
Mar 5, 20164 min read
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