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I applaud you for making the effort in searching for the truth. It takes a great amount of courage and energy to say 'enough is enough' and go against your usual behaviour. Therefore I won't keep you any longer! My articles are 100% ad free and are a collection of my inner most realisations about love, relationships, life and happiness, put together for you to make sense of your own journey.
Michaela Patel
Jan 15 min read
IS THERE SOMETHING WRONG WITH YOU FOR NOT WANTING TO BE INTIMATE?
Exploration of how trauma influences our suppressed sexual needs and desire for intimacy in relationships.
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Michaela Patel
Nov 9, 20245 min read
HOW WE LOSE OURSELVES IN LYING AND HOW WE FIND OUR WAY BACK TO BEING AUTHENTIC
A deep exploration into how we lose ourselves in lying and how we find our way back to being authentic.
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Michaela Patel
Sep 8, 20246 min read
THE DYNAMICS OF WOMEN DATING IMMATURE MEN AND THE IMPACT ON INTIMACY
Uncover the complexities of women dating immature men and the impact on intimacy.
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Michaela Patel
Feb 21, 20244 min read
AUTHENTICITY - THE WORD THAT MADE IT TO THE WORD OF THE YEAR
The expression many use to fit the purpose of appearing more credible in the world of rising collective consciousnes, but what it really...
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Michaela Patel
May 3, 20235 min read
HOW DOES EMOTIONAL NEGLECT SHOW UP IN RELATIONSHIPS?
What is childhood emotional neglect and how does it affect your ability to find a compatible partner?
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Michaela Patel
Sep 21, 20225 min read
OPINION - THE ENEMY OF CONNECTION
I find the incessant arguing and attacking each other on social media platforms thouroughly draining. It makes me sick to my core and I...
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Michaela Patel
Jul 24, 20228 min read
WHY ME?: HOW TO DEAL WITH TOXICITY AND SAVE YOUR SANITY
It is highly likely that, you too, have experienced the feeling of being utterly stuck. Like no matter how hard you have tried with the...
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Michaela Patel
Jul 22, 20223 min read
EMOTIONAL RAPE AND INVALIDATION
What is emotional rape and how does it affect us? Why is emotional validation vital to our wellbeing?
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Michaela Patel
Apr 20, 20227 min read
POWER STRUGGLE - THE ENEMY OF LOVE
What are our personal rights and why do we struggle to find true love in relationships? How does empowered relating look like?
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Michaela Patel
Dec 3, 20215 min read
THE ART OF SELF-DECEPTION: WHAT BURDENS OUR AUTHENTIC SOULS
What burdens our authentic souls? How exactly does our false Self operate to our disadvantage?
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Michaela Patel
Sep 26, 20215 min read
SELF-LOVE COVER UP: WHAT SELF-LOVE ISN'T
Recently, I have noticed a number of bitter comments popping up on various self-help sites. Usually posted by people who have experienced...
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Michaela Patel
Jul 30, 20215 min read
ADMIRE THYSELF: WHY IS SELF-VALIDATION VITAL TO OUR HAPPINESS
Why is self-validation important to our happiness?
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Michaela Patel
Apr 27, 20214 min read
TOUGHEN YOUR CORE - NURTURE YOU
All actions ever taken by humans point either towards love, or the lack of it. The latter leads to hurt rollover for many generations and...
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Michaela Patel
Jan 15, 20216 min read
THE SHAPE OF YOU: CONFRONT YOUR LIMITING BELIEFS
What shapes us mentally and spiritually to become who we are? How can we confront our beliefs, ourselves, and why should we?
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Michaela Patel
Oct 25, 20205 min read
THE PRICE WE PAY: HOW CONSUMERISM DULLS OUR SOULS
Consumerism dulls our souls. Do you know your true value?
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Michaela Patel
Apr 20, 20205 min read
ARE YOU CO-DEPENDENT?
Are you addicted to the idea of love?
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Michaela Patel
Apr 10, 20204 min read
WOBBLY PARENTING: COMMON MISTAKES OF PARENTING AND HOW THEY SHAPE OUR CHILDREN
I am a loving, deeply caring, for most parts aware parent who every so often feels like total failure... Any truly responsible parent...
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Michaela Patel
Sep 11, 20195 min read
WHERE IS THE TRUTH? - HOW TO BECOME SELF-AWARE AND FAIR
What limits our ability to reach an agreement with our partner and when it is in our best interest to disengage?
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Michaela Patel
Jun 1, 20193 min read
THE POWER OF SEXY - HOW DO WE UNCONSCIOUSLY DEVALUE OURSELVES?
Why is being sexy so important to us? With the summer in full swing, the layers are coming off whilst the pressure to look hot is on. We...
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