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I applaud you for making the effort in searching for the truth. It takes a great amount of courage and energy to say 'enough is enough' and go against your usual behaviour. Therefore I won't keep you any longer! My articles are 100% ad free and are a collection of my inner most realisations about love, relationships, life and happiness, put together for you to make sense of your own journey.
MANIPULATION AND RELATIONSHIPS 1
Manipulation is the black magic of relationships. How far are we willing to go in using it determines who tricks who... Some...
Michaela Patel
Dec 11, 20163 min read
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DEPTH OF CONNECTION - THE COMMUNICATION
What kind of space opens up for you when you come to communicate your wants and needs to your partner? Expressing ourselves isn't always...
Michaela Patel
Nov 23, 20163 min read
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ARE YOU SMARTER THAN YOUR SMARTPHONE?
Is increasingly smart technology outsmarting us by taking away the power over our life and decision making? From bracelets telling us we...
Michaela Patel
Oct 12, 20163 min read
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THE MYTH OF FORGIVENESS
Forgiveness is an act of LOVE, as much as holding onto resentment is an act of FEAR. So let me explain... When we forgive, we say 'I...
Michaela Patel
Sep 20, 20162 min read
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PEACEFUL REALITY
Would you like more peace in life starting right now? There are 3 things you can change with reading the last sentence of this article....
Michaela Patel
Aug 31, 20164 min read
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RELATIONSHIP BUBBLE
All we strive for, since a very young age, is to be in a relationship. We are driven by what relationship REPRESENTS, rarely questioning...
Michaela Patel
Aug 11, 20163 min read
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EMOTIONAL COMA
Doctor: 'How may I help you?' Patient: 'I am in pain for some time now. I don't know what is WRONG with me but I am NOT FEELING OK!'...
Michaela Patel
Jul 30, 20164 min read
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LOVE AND ATTENTION
Do you think that being attentive equals being LOVING? Most of us assume so. Some of us build our relationships on this assumption with...
Michaela Patel
Jul 16, 20164 min read
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LIFE SHAKE-UP
Midlife crisis? Divorce? Anxiety? Panic attacks? Extreme dissatisfaction with life? Depression? Whatever you call it, it is your SOUL...
Michaela Patel
Jul 12, 20164 min read
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DO YOU LOVE... YOU ?
Do you love yourself? We would like to think so, wouldn't we? Yet thinking and DOING are two, very different activities. What we know...
Michaela Patel
Jun 23, 20166 min read
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ARE YOU A RELATIONSHIP ADDICT?
I was by his side to make him happy. It was a self-imposed task my happiness depended on. I have voluntarily handed the permission to...
Michaela Patel
Jun 16, 20163 min read
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MIRROR, MIRROR ON THE WALL
Do you think good looking people are happier? Think again! The advertising industry certainly hammers this into our subconscious daily,...
Michaela Patel
May 28, 20164 min read
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WHY DO WE CHEAT?
Are we looking for thrills? Novelty? For the feeling of being desired we no longer feel in our current relationship? Yes we are. But only...
Michaela Patel
May 16, 20163 min read
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MISSION IMPOSSIBLE?
My blogs are an attempt to wake you up from the nightmare you don't know you are dreaming, to the emotional pain you feel but fail to...
Michaela Patel
Mar 30, 20163 min read
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UNDERSTAND YOUR MIND TO GAIN A SENSE OF CONTROL
'Rule your mind or it will rule you' said the Buddha. But how? How can we stop our habitual thinking and take control over our...
Michaela Patel
Mar 23, 20165 min read
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YOUR AWAKENING
Are you realising that you are NOT as happy you thought you were? Feeling as though you are not living YOUR life, but someone else's like...
Michaela Patel
Feb 20, 20165 min read
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LOOKING GOOD - THE ILLUSION OF WORTH
We love having more. Bigger! Better! Newer stuff. It makes us feel good about ourselves. Doing, having or looking ‘better than' others...
Michaela Patel
Feb 11, 20163 min read
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LIFE LESSONS 2
Conditioning is a set of beliefs, FILTERS through which we view the world. First our parents made us believe things, shortly after that...
Michaela Patel
Feb 10, 20165 min read
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DRAMA 2
We really struggle to have a peaceful life, don't we? Although unconsciously, it is intentional. It is our escape. ESCAPE from the drama...
Michaela Patel
Feb 2, 20162 min read
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NARCISSIST'S MASK
His GUILT was due to an indent in his mask of perfection. All guilt was because it was pointing to the defects in his image of a NICE...
Michaela Patel
Jan 26, 20162 min read
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