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I applaud you for making the effort in searching for the truth. It takes a great amount of courage and energy to say 'enough is enough' and go against your usual behaviour. Therefore I won't keep you any longer! My articles are 100% ad free and are a collection of my inner most realisations about love, relationships, life and happiness, put together for you to make sense of your own journey.
Michaela Patel
Jan 22, 20173 min read
REALITY CHECK
Making our happiness independent of HAVING (money, relationships, knowledge) brings complete freedom into our life. We are no longer...
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Michaela Patel
Dec 18, 20162 min read
LOVEABILITY AND WORTH
We often judge, compare and criticise. To make ourselves feel better we put others down. What we don't realise is that we experience...
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Michaela Patel
Dec 11, 20163 min read
MANIPULATION AND RELATIONSHIPS 2
When you have no desire, nor need, to justify your dos and don'ts to anyone but YOU, you have established a solid relationship with...
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Michaela Patel
Dec 11, 20163 min read
MANIPULATION AND RELATIONSHIPS 1
Manipulation is the black magic of relationships. How far are we willing to go in using it determines who tricks who... Some...
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Michaela Patel
Dec 7, 20162 min read
TO THE INSECURE YOU
So you like to FIX, change your partner to finally get from him/her what you didn't get as a child - the love, attention and care?...
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Michaela Patel
Nov 2, 20164 min read
UNDERNEATH THE MASK OF LOVE
Are you looking to find true love? Do you know that the one thing keeping you from experiencing true love is fear? Lets look at a little...
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Michaela Patel
Sep 26, 20163 min read
PRACTICING SELF-LOVE
PRACTICING SELF-LOVE SIMPLY MEANS BECOMING OUR BEST FRIEND. It start with changing the way we see and behave towards ourselves by...
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Michaela Patel
Sep 20, 20162 min read
THE MYTH OF FORGIVENESS
Forgiveness is an act of LOVE, as much as holding onto resentment is an act of FEAR. So let me explain... When we forgive, we say 'I...
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Michaela Patel
Sep 6, 20164 min read
HEALING YOU 2
I'd like you to realise how you may have been affected by inadequate upbringing, by demonstrating how the pattern of my own false beliefs...
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Michaela Patel
Sep 6, 20162 min read
HEALING YOU 1
There is a conscious AND subconscious STORY we hold about the circumstances which led to us believing in our inadequacy. And they are...
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Michaela Patel
Aug 24, 20166 min read
BECOME YOUR THERAPIST
To get to know oneself, one has to ASK questions. For every WHY there is a BECAUSE. Nothing we do is without a reason. No action we take...
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Michaela Patel
Jul 8, 20163 min read
THE INSECURE JUDGE
First mirrors, dated to around 6000BC, were just polished pieces of volcanic stones. Manufactured glass mirrors first appeared in Venice...
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Michaela Patel
Jul 3, 20164 min read
WHO IS TALKING?
How skilful are you in observing the TALKER in your head? Your life may not be the same after reading this. Our journey to self-love...
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Michaela Patel
Jun 29, 20164 min read
SUCCESS IN THE MOMENT
Happiness, like peace, is only achieved and felt in the moment as RIGHT NOW is all that exists. Long lasting happiness and peace, meaning...
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Michaela Patel
Jun 25, 20164 min read
INVERSE PARENTING
Are we the kind of parents we WISH we had growing up? And how much of our parenting is driven by our bruised Inner Child? Our Inner Child...
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Michaela Patel
Jun 16, 20163 min read
ARE YOU A RELATIONSHIP ADDICT?
I was by his side to make him happy. It was a self-imposed task my happiness depended on. I have voluntarily handed the permission to...
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Michaela Patel
May 22, 20165 min read
COMPULSION TO HELP 1
Do others confide in you? Do you happily consult them on their life troubles, because you understand their suffering? Knowing you can...
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Michaela Patel
May 12, 20165 min read
KARMA 1
Karma isn’t some religious concept but a very REAL occurrence altering our daily lives. I like to demonstrate how karma works on a story...
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Michaela Patel
May 7, 20164 min read
THE CRITICAL OTHER
Around a partner or a parent for whom nothing is ever good enough, we feel constantly down and angry, sluggish and tired. Whenever they...
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Michaela Patel
Apr 19, 20163 min read
AN APOLOGY TO MY BODY
My dearest Friend, I have a confession to make... I feel really guilty for how I have treated you all this time. I feel so so bad for how...
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